Question: My wife loves having me perform oral sex on her, but considers performing
oral sex on me to be disgusting (she was raised in a very puritanical
society). Is there any way to ease her past her mental block on this
matter?
Answer: I can appreciate your wife's reluctance and there are many women who are uncomfortable with the idea of doing this specific activity. However, I would suggest taking baby steps with her, try to first( I know men don't like to have 'the talk') but talk with her on how her rejection of doing this to you makes you feel. Also listen to her side of things as well.
I am no expert, although I do have a lot of experience in this, and can tell you that your not alone. This is one of the most common requested services I come across. I myself, absolutely love giving oral to a man! Its a specialty of mine. To me, its a turn on to me to see the 'rise' I get from a man when I am taking him into my mouth and slowly coming up and getting that eye contact. The whole idea is to make love to a mans penis with your mouth, its very personal and intense.
Any woman can lay there and enjoy the sexual intercourse but it takes a certain amount of commitment and the wanting to pleasure your man to give him that satisfaction of giving a great blow job. Also the saying 'do unto others, as you'd want done to you' can be a great fit for this subject. If a woman enjoys having oral done to her, why not give the pleasure back??
Just take things slow and remember to communicate with your partner. Tell her what feels good or what you think you want to try. Also tell her how sexy she is doing it when she is doing it, and I am sure she will do the same when you give pleasure to her too. Have fun with it! I hope this helps.
If not, then just come on in and ask for me. Or even bring her with and if she is open to it, I can show your wives, girlfriends or mistress' how to give a amazing blow job! I don't mind sharing the techniques I have found that men love!
If there's a physical reason that she "can't", or abuse or a strong psychological issue, ok, but if it's just that she "can't be bothered", then it's reasonable to say that she's alittle bit of a selfish lover. If she enjoys the oral on her then why not indulge the luxury to her partner? Be sensitive to her feelings, yes but also point out what I just mentioned and maybe she might come round...





